Monday, June 24, 2013

Neighbors

 Among the rights and duties that Islam has promulgated, are the rights of neighbours. It is a Muslim’s obligation to behave benevolently with his neighbours as he behaves with his near and dear ones. He should be courteous with them and try to alleviate their calamities and affliction. One who observes the rights of his neighbours, shall find this virtue most beneficial, making him worthy of Allah’s pleasure.
We have been warned that most of the people would fail to fulfill these rights. The Prophet of Allah (sawa) said  “Listen to what I tell you. Only a few people who are blessed by Allah ‘s Mercy honor the rights of neighbors. Allah stressed the rights of neighbors so much that I thought neighbors inherit from man.”[1]
 The rights of neighbourhood are not meant for Muslim neighbours only. Of course, a Muslim neighbour has one more claim upon us - that of Islamic brotherhood; but so far as the rights of neighbourship are concerned, all are equal.
 
 Explaining it, the Holy Prophet said: Neighbours are of three kinds:
(1) that one who has got one right upon you;   (2) that one who has got two rights upon you;  (3) that one who has got three rights upon you.  The neighbour having three rights upon you is the one who is also a Muslim and a relative. The neighbour having two rights is the one who is either a non-Muslim or a non-relative Muslim.
 The neighbour having one right is the one who is neither a Muslim nor a relative. Still he has got all the claims of neighbourhood-rights upon you.
Lets us glance at a few traditions on the rights of neighbours:

 The Holy Prophet (sawa) said:” That man is not from me who sleeps contentedly while his neighbour sleeps hungry.”
 
 Al-Imam `Ali ibn al-Husayn (a. s.) in his Risalat al-Huquq, said: “And the right of your neighbor is that .... You should not pursue any of his imperfections, and you should not seek any of his faults. But if you should discover any of his faults unintentionally, you should take the role of a fortified stronghold and a veiling screen regarding what you know. You should guard them in such a way that none of his defects can be discovered even if they are thoroughly inspected with spears. And you should not eavesdrop on him, and you should not forsake him during times of hardship. And you should not envy him when he receives a blessing. Pardon his deviation and forgive his mistakes. And do not lose your temper when he behaves out of ignorance with you.....”


The Prophet of Allah (sawa) was asked: “O’ Prophet of Allah! What are the rights of neighbors incumbent upon other neighbors?” He (sawa) said: “The least right of a neighbor is that if he asks you for a loan you should grant it to him. If he asks you for help, you should help him. If he wants to borrow something from you, you should lend it to him. If he wants you to donate something to him, you should do so. If he invites you, you should accept his invitation. If he gets sick, you should go and visit him. If he passes away, you should attend his funeral procession. If he receives some blessings, you should become happy and not become jealous of his blessings. If a tragedy befalls him, you should feel sorry for him. You should not build a tall building which blocks the view from his house. If you bring home something like fruit, you should give him some as a gift, or cover up the fruit and take it home in such a way that his kids do not see it.”[2]
It should be noted that the fulfilling of the above rights do not give us reason to disregard religious laws with regards to najasat, idol worhsipping, interaction with na-mehram, haram acts etc.  Providing our house for hosting their festivals, facilitating their sinful acts, allowing our chidren to visit them and learn bad habits,  avoiding our religious activities to avoid their displeasure etc cannot be justifised as fulflling the rights to neighbours.
May Allah give us taufeeq to fulfill the rights of our neighbours.




[1] Mustadrak al-Vasa’el, v.2, p.79.
[2] Mustadrak al-Vasa’el, v.2, p.79.

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